Mindfulness
has been gathering much attention over recent years as a
tried-and-tested method of reducing stress and anxiety. By helping us
to focus our attention on the present moment and not get swept up in
worrying or negative thoughts about the past or future, a regular
practice can help us to:
- learn to cope better with the pressures we're under;
- recognise the thoughts and judgements we make, often subconsciously, that generate more stress;
- find balance and a sense of calm.
About
the course:
Mindfulness
is proven to help people cope better with stress, depression and
anxiety. This ten-week life-skills course combines experiential
mindfulness practices with the latest tools and techniques of
neuroscience, psychology and the study of well-being. It will include
mindfulness meditation practices, , group dialogue and discussion,
individually tailored instructions and home assignments. The course
consists of ten one hour sessions.
If
you have any questions about the 10-week mindfulness course, please
ring Hayley on 07990912421 or Martyn on 07592330467
Awareness of Breath
This
guided meditation on the breath will help you learn to simply be and
to look within yourself with mindfulness and equanimity. Allow
yourself to switch from the usual mode of doing to a mode of
non-doing. Of simply being. Sitting in an erect posture,
either on a straight back chair or on a cushion. As you allow
your body to become still, bring your attention to the fact that you
are breathing. And become aware of the movement of your breath
as it comes into your body and as it leaves your body. Not
manipulating the breath in any way or trying to change it.
Simply being aware of it and of the feelings associated with
breathing. And observing the breath deep down in your belly.
Feeling the abdomen as it expands gently on the inbreath, and as it
falls back towards your spine on the outbreath. Being totally
here in each moment with each breath. Not trying to do
anything, not trying to get any place, simply being with your
breath. Giving full care and attention to each inbreath and to
each outbreath. As they follow one after the other in a never
ending cycle and flow.
You
will find that from time to time your mind will wander off into
thoughts. When you notice that your attention is no longer here
and no longer with your breathing, and without judging yourself,
bring your attention back to your breathing and ride the waves of
your breathing, fully conscious of the duration of each breath from
moment to moment. Every time you find your mind wandering off
the breath, gently bringing it back to the present, back to the
moment-to-moment observing of the flow of your breathing. Using
your breath as an anchor to focus your attention, to bring you back
to the present whenever you notice that your mind is becoming
absorbed or reactive. Using your breath to help you tune into a
state of relaxed awareness and stillness.
Now
as you observe your breathing, you may find from time to time that
you are becoming aware of sensations in your body. As you
maintain awareness of your breathing, see if it is possible to expand
the field of your awareness so that it includes a sense of your body
as a whole as you sit here. Feeling your body, from head to
toe, and becoming aware of all the sensations in your body. So
that now you are observing not only the flow of breathing, but the
sense of your body as a whole.
Being
here with whatever feelings and sensations come up in any moment
without judging them, without reacting to them, just being fully
here, fully aware. Totally present with whatever your feelings
are and with your breath and a sense of your body as a whole.
And again whenever you notice that your mind wandering off, just
bringing it back to your breathing and your body as you sit here not
going anywhere, not doing anything just simply being, simply
sitting. Moment to moment, being fully present, fully with
yourself.
Reestablishing
your awareness on the body as a whole and on the breath as it moves
in and out of your body. Coming back to a sense of fullness of each
inbreath, and the fullness of each outbreath. If you find
yourself at any point drawn into a stream of thinking and you notice
that you are no longer observing the breath, just using your
breathing and the sense of your body to anchor you and stabilize you
in the present.
Just
being with your breathing from moment to moment, just sitting in
stillness, looking for nothing and being present to all. Just
as it is, just as it unfolds. Just being right here, right
now. Complete. Human. Whole.
As
the practice comes to an end, you might give yourself credit for
having spent this time nourishing yourself in a deep way by dwelling
in this state of non-doing, in this state of being. For having
intentionally made time for yourself to simply be who you are.
And as you move back into the world, allow the benefits of this
practice to expand into every aspect of your life.
Guided Body Scan
This
guided body scan meditation is intended to help you enter a very deep
state of relaxation. It is best if you can manage to stay awake
throughout the entire exercise. It’s important to remember to not
try to relax. This will just create tension. What you’ll be doing
instead is becoming aware of each passing moment and just accepting
what is happening within you, seeing it as it is. Let go of the
tendency of wanting things to be different from how they are now and
allow things to be exactly as you find them. Just watch the activity
of your mind, letting go of judgmental and critical thoughts when
they arise, and just doing what the exercise guides you to do as best
you can.
Lie
down in a warm and private place, dressed in loose and comfortable
clothing at a time when you will not be interrupted. Closing your
eyes, and letting your arms lie alongside your body, your feet
falling away from each other and slowly bringing your attention to
the fact that you are breathing. Not trying to control your breath in
any way but simply experiencing it as the air moves in and out of
your body and noticing your abdomen and feeling the sensations there
as your breath comes into your body and your abdomen gently expands.
Then noticing your belly deflate as the breath comes out of your
body. And following the rhythmic movement of each breath…the rising
of your belly on the inbreath and on each outbreath just letting go,
letting your body become heavy as it sinks a little bit deeper into
relaxation. Just bringing full attention to each breath in each
moment.
Now
bringing your attention to your feet, becoming aware of whatever
sensations are there. If you are registering a blank as you tune in,
then just experiencing nothing. And as you breathe in, imagine your
breath moving all the way down to your feet and then when you reach
your feet, begin your outbreath and let it move all the way up your
body and out your nose. So that you’re breathing in from your nose
and breathing out from your feet. And when you are ready, letting
your feet dissolve in your mind’s eye. Become aware of the shins
and calf muscles and the sensations in the lower legs, not just on
the surface but right down into the bones, experiencing and accepting
what you feel here and breathing into it, then breathing out from it.
Then letting go of your lower legs as you relax into the bed or mat.
And moving now into the thighs and if there’s any tension just
noticing that. Breathing into and out from the thighs. Then letting
your thighs dissolve and relax.
Shift
your attention to your pelvis now. From one hip to the other.
Noticing your buttocks in contact with the bed or the mat. And the
sensations of contact and of weight. Becoming aware of the region of
the genitals. And whatever sensations or lack of sensations you are
experiencing. And directing your breath down into your pelvis,
breathing with the entirety of your pelvis. And as you breath out,
moving the breath back up through your body and out your nose,
letting your pelvis soften and release all tension as you sink even
deeper into a state of relaxed awareness and stillness. Totally
present in each moment. Content to just be, and to just be right here
as you are right now. Direct your attention now to your lower back.
And just experiencing your back as it is. Letting your breath
penetrate and move into every part of your lower back on the
in-breath. And on the out-breath, just letting any tension, any
tightness, any holding on just flow out as much as it will. And then
letting go of your lower back. And moving up into your upper back
now. Just feeling the sensations in your upper back. You may even
feel your ribcage, in back as well as in front, expand on the
in-breath. And any tightness, fatigue or discomfort in this part of
your body, just letting them dissolve and move out with the outbreath
as you let go and sink even deeper into stillness and relaxation.
And
now shifting your attention to your belly again and experiencing the
rising and falling of your belly as you breathe. Feeling the
movements of your diaphragm, that umbrella-like muscle that separates
your belly from your chest. And experiencing the chest as it expands
on the in-breath and deflates on the out-breath. And if you can, tune
into the rhythmic beating of your heart within your chest. Feeling it
if you can. As well as the lungs expanding on either side of your
heart. Just experiencing your chest, your belly, as you lie here…the
muscles on the chest wall, the breasts, the entirety of the front of
your body. And now just letting this region dissolve into relaxation
as well.
Moving
your attention now to your fingertips and to both hands together,
just becoming aware of the sensations now in the tips of your fingers
and thumbs where you may feel some pulsations from the blood flow, a
dampness or a warmth or whatever you feel. Just feeling your fingers.
And expand your awareness to include the palms of your hands and the
backs of your hands and your wrists. And here again perhaps picking
up the pulsations of the arteries in your wrists as the blood flows
to and from your hands. And becoming aware as well of the forearms.
And the elbows. Any and all sensations regardless of what they are.
Allowing the field of your awareness to include now the upper arms.
Right up to your shoulders. Just experiencing your shoulders and if
there are any tensions, breathing into your shoulders and arms. And
letting that tension dissolve as you breathe out. Letting go of the
tension and letting go of your arms. All the way from your
fingertips, right through to your shoulders. As you sink even deeper
into a state of relaxed awareness. Just being present in each moment.
Letting go of whatever thoughts come up or whatever impulses to move
and just experiencing yourself in this moment.
And
now focus your attention on your neck and throat and feel this part
of your body, experiencing what it feels like perhaps when you
swallow and when you breathe. And then letting it go. Letting it
relax and dissolve in your mind’s eye. Becoming aware of your face
now. Focusing on the jaw and the chin, just experiencing them
as they are.
Becoming
aware of your lips and your mouth. And becoming aware of your cheeks
now…and your nose, feeling the breath as it moves in and out at the
nostrils. And be aware of your eyes. And the entire region around
your eyes and eyelids. And if there’s any tension, letting it leave
as the breath leaves. And now the forehead, letting it soften to let
go of stored emotions. And the temples. And if you sense any emotion
associated with the tension or feelings in your face, just being
aware of that. Breathing in and letting the face dissolve into
relaxation and stillness. And now become aware of your ears, and back
and top of your head. Now letting your whole face and head relax. For
now, just letting it be as it is. Letting it be still and neutral.
Relaxed and at peace.
Now
letting your breath move through your entire body in whatever way
feels natural for you. Through the entire length of your body. All of
your muscles in a deep state of relaxation. And your mind simply
aware of this energy, of this flow of breath. Experiencing your
entire body breathing. Sinking deeper and deeper into a state of
stillness and deep relaxation. Allow yourself to feel whole. In touch
with your essential self in a realm of silence, of stillness, of
peace. And seeing that this stillness is in itself healing. And
allowing the world to be as it is beyond your personal fears and
concerns. Beyond the tendencies of your mind to want everything to be
a certain way. Seeing yourself as complete right now as you are. As
totally awake right now.
As
the exercise ends, bring your awareness back to your body again,
feeling the whole of it. You may want to wiggle your toes and
fingers. Allow this calmness and this centeredness to remain with you
when you move. Congratulate yourself on having taken the time to
nourish yourself in this way. And remember that this state of
relaxation and clarity is accessible to you by simply paying
attention to your breath in any moment, no matter what’s happening
in your day. Let your breath be a source of constant strength and
energy for you.
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